Research On The Micro-blog Users' Concept Of Marriage And Family

China has been reforming and opening up for 40 years and is entering a new era.With the deepening of modernization and urbanization,Chinese social structure has undergone tremendous changes,and the concept of marriage and family has also changed.The concept of marriage and family is united in the cultural and social psychological structure and is closely related to people's lives.From the marriage view of spouse selection and matrimony to the concept of childbearing and education,then to the family view of husband-wife relationship and intergenerational relationship,one's life cannot be get rid of the family's influence.With the new changes in the new era,the popularity of mobile Internet and smart phones allows people to access the Internet anywhere and anytime.As a new type of social media,micro-blog has quickly been accepted and widely used by people,making micro-blog a good medium for recording and reflecting changes in the times.The micro-blog of the people's daily is a news site,and the main purpose of the people's daily is to participate,communicate and record the times.It will inevitably include information about the concept of marriage and family in micro-blog.It is a very good way to get the concept of marriage and family in the social transformation.By combing the information and comment on the marriage and family of the people's daily micro-blog from 2012 to 2017,this paper hopes to describe the marriage and family concept in the social transformation vividly and profoundly.This article divides the concept of marriage and family into three parts:marriage view,childbearing view and family view.In the view of marriage,there are new features in the concept of spouse selection:Women's demand for men's economic income is increased,and the standard of mate choice between men and women is different;the acceptance of spare tire,premarital cohabitation and divorce is great;regional prejudice is deepened.In recent years,the phenomenon of "outrageous price gift" is common in engagement,young people have the symptoms about fear of marriage,and the number of divorces has increased for 14 years.In terms of the concept of fertility,the ratio of male and female birth to sex began to decline;the increasing number of families with lost their only child led to people's suspicion of family planning policy.With the introduction of two-child fertility policy for couples where either the husband or the wife is from a single-child family in 2013 and the universal two-child policy in 2015,there was no baby boom,so people were not willing to give birth to more children;there have also been many changes in family education in the concept of fertility,the competition for high quality education resources,the continuous reduction of primary and secondary school students and the emergence of family private schools show that the ideology of elite in family education is becoming more and more popular.In the view of family,going to her husband's house or going to his wife's house in the Spring Festival and whose surname is the child have become a hot topic.The implementation of the first anti-domestic violence law has profoundly reflected the changes in the relationship between husband and wife in family relationships;the "always going home to visit parents" into the law highlights the problem of the lack of emotional support for the intergenerational relationship in the family members;relationship;mobile phones have become necessities of life,changing people's lives and endangering the close relationships of family members.From this we can see the alienation of science and technology to human beings,these changes reflect the change of people's family view.This paper reviews the comments of many netizens involved in the concept of marriage and family,and they express their views and form the concept of marriage and family in social transformation.Through the study of the changes of these concepts,the profound reasons for the changes are analyzed.First,because of the different speed of different strata caused by Matthew effect,the family is more pragmatic and utilitarian.In the middle and lower class,because of the limited way to acquire wealth,it will be difficult for a rising class,but it is easy to fall into the next class.This makes the middle-and lower-class households,who account for the majority of the population,become increasingly anxious and afraid to fall into the next class,thus making families more pragmatic and utilitarian.From the social structure,it is the gradual change from the Pyramid structure to the inverted "Ding" structure.Two is the precarious situation of the family's core functions.The increasing rate of divorce year after year gives rise to questions about how long marriage and family systems can last.The most important reason for the analysis of fertility function is overemphasizing the relationship between husband and wife in the family,ignoring birth is the core function of the family.Three is the elitist of family education.The development of society,the deepening of social division of labor,and the prosperity of elite culture,the family is the true source of elite education,which is reflected in the contention of high quality educational resources,the continuous reduction of primary and middle school students and the challenge to the current educational system by the elite class,and the emergence of "private school" education.Four is the hindrance of two births.Although the country liberalized the second child in an all-round way,but the second child may not come,it is affected by economic pressure,birth cost,elite family education and other factors,and people are reluctant to have two births.The five is that the concept of equality between men and women has great resistance.Going to her husband's house or going to his wife's house in the Spring Festival and whose surname is the child show that the concept of equality between men and women is further improved,but the conflict of conflicts is increasing,and the most important reason for impeding equality between men and women is the increasingly severe employment situation.The six is that the law enters the family.There are more and more laws on family,such as "always going home to visit parents " and "anti-domestic violence law".The growing number of laws on the family also highlights the inability of moral restraints.This article is based on the literature of the people's daily micro-blog on the concept of marriage and family in social transformation,to understand and reveal the interaction between family and society,in order to find out the law of family evolution under the influence of social transformation,so as to have a general grasp of the trend of the development of the concept of marriage and family in the future of China.