The Values Of Yan's Family Precept Reference To Contemporary Family Education

Family education is an important part of Chinese traditional culture,but also promote the carrier of traditional culture.lt is the ancient motto,men and women with high ideals through letters,essays and other forms of education of future generations of family education model.Before the emergence of formal school education,the family bears the important responsibility of nurturing the next generation.Family education is the basic project of education.The family as the representative of the family education in the cultivation of individual and personality,showing the unique significance and value.The Northern Qi Dynasty educator Yan Zhitui "YanShiJiaXun"Chinese is the first existing systematic family education works,known as the "China family ancestor" is Yan with their own life experience and philosophy written a textbook warn his family,There are seven volumes and twenty volumes in this book.The book contains rich ideas of family education,which has strong practicability and guidance.This paper attempts to study the "YanShiJiaXun" family education thought,promote Chinese traditional family culture,clear instructions in the contemporary family education value,its essence,make the past serve the present,to provide some useful guidance for today's family education and the construction of socialist spiritual civilization.This paper mainly consists of the following three parts:The first part mainly introduces the theoretical basis and background of the formation of "YanShiJiaXun" family education.The first thought is influenced by the traditional Confucian culture,cultivating good learning,thrifty,service life are involved of.the Confucian "benevolence" and "ceremony","filial piety" and "the doctrine of the mean" inheritance and development;In addition,the spread of Buddhism and Taoism is a reflection on the reality of the social atmosphere at that time.Secondly,social factors constitute the "YanShiJiaXun" produced:highlighting ancient China attaches great importance to family education tradition and the political reality of frequent wars and regime change,the interests of the famity.ls the"YanShiJiaXun" family education thought in such a background.The second part mainly analyzes "YanShiJiaXun" family education thought formed the theoretical basis and background of the times,the contents of "family education YanShiJiaXun" elaborates.The basic idea is to revolve around the three aspects of "self-cultivation-Qi family-the life of the world".First of all,his self-cultivation is the premise,mainly from the "filial 100 first","benevolence" and"keep the festival" Zonta "three point to expound the moral education.Then it analyses the way to cultivate the body,and reaffirms the purpose of learning,the method of learning and the attitude of learning.Second,the principle of dealing with the relationship of family members,Mainly from the "family","Godson","brother" in the article refines the marital relationship,parent-child relationship and sibling relationship of human relations and family thought,And put forward the family norms,such as "wide fierce combination","the application of rules but not extravagant"virtue and the correct concept of marriage family.Finally,from the concept of fame and Weirenchushi aspects of the essence of life.The third part,as main body and core of this paper,Based on the theory of the first two parts,combined with the reality of family education,it is mainly manifested in the weakening of moral education concept,the single content of family education and the hardening of family education.And then discusses the "YanShiJiaXun" family education thought of modern family education specific reference value.Firstly,to use the "moral education as the base" to update the concept of family education;Secondly,to enrich the content of family education by drawing on the theory of "prenatal education-early education",cultivating independent ability and ideal education with lofty aspirations;Thirdly,from the "Yanci relief phase","first" and "subtle" to optimize the way of family education,further summarized the principles and methods of family education,the family education is more effective,a good reference for modern family education.