The Influence Of Domestic Violence On Children's Socialization In Mongolia

With the rapid changes in social life,the problem of domestic violence in Mongolia has also become increasingly prominent,and has shown an upward trend year by year.Domestic violence is an act involving a family environment,such as marriage or cohabitation,violence from one person and another,or other abuse.Domestic violence can occur in heterosexual and same-sex family relationships and may include violence against children or the elderly.There are many manifestations of family violence.Mainly includes physical violence,emotional and spiritual violence,economic violence,sexual abuse and sexual harassment,and so on.Children who have witnessed domestic violence,due to imperfect family functions,can easily make them lack emotional communication and experience among normal people.The emotion is superficial and indifferent.Self-centeredness,irritable temperament and poor self-control are the emotional characteristics of such children.Some children are extremely excited about insignificant trifles,producing anger and even destructive impulses.People with serious circumstances have even embarked on the road to crime.Research shows that one in three households in Mongolia has some degree of domestic violence,which is almost half of all violence currently existing in Mongolia.The main victims of these domestic violence are women and children.Eighty per cent of the female murderers are subjected to prolonged oppression and destruction until they are physically and mentally unable to endure,and eventually kill those who perpetrate violence against them.The perpetrators are generally husbands,step-fathers,and lovers.In the course of Mongolia's social development,accompanied by economic reforms and social transformation,the resolution of family relations has become more difficult.During the period of social change,unemployment,poverty,reduced family income,changes in family responsibilities,and family structure have made it more difficult for families to solve personal problems on their own.At the same time,during the period of social change,the phenomenon of alcoholism among men in Mongolia increased significantly,and family disputes and domestic violence caused by alcoholism also increased significantly.Judging from the children's socialized future trends,the family environment has a hidden influence on the children's mind and mind.In particular,the temperament of parents,their trust in each other and the goals of their parents' lives,the relationship between their parents and their children,and their relationships with other people have an important influence on children.The behavior of parents becomes the object of children's imitation.It not only affects the character of the children,but the influence will remain until the children's life.In contrast to adult victims,domestic violence is particularly serious in terms of physical and psychological harm to underage children who are undergoing socialization.Among the normal traditional Mongolian families,a socialized educational method that combines with the traditional culture of the nation has enabled Mongolian children to naturally acquire the skills and habits adapted to their own way of life,laying an important foundation for their adult entry into society..If children experience frequent family violence in the process of socialization of children,they hinder their normal socialization process,affect their physical,mental,and spiritual growth,and can easily lead to psychological and behavioral deviations.Society brings difficulties.In order to further deepen the understanding of the impact of domestic violence on children's socialization and thus improve the relevant protection laws and safeguards for children in domestic violence,this article will target the research on children suffering domestic violence in Mongolia and discuss domestic violence.The impact on children's socialization.In order to explore this issue,the author conducted a quantitative and qualitative survey of 133 children who suffered domestic violence.Investigated the current situation of children in violent families,paid attention to their performance in daily learning and life,compared physical,psychological and spiritual differences and characteristics between these children and children in normal family environment,and analyzed the violent family environment.The children of Chinese growing up have a view on the future,life and society,and demonstrate the negative impact of domestic violence on children's healthy growth,socialization and the establishment of a correct outlook on life.Domestic violence exerts many adverse effects on children's physical and mental health and their socialization.These adverse effects lead to these children's poor ability to adapt to the environment,psychological fluctuations,frequent fears,poor comprehension,psychological instability,poor academic performance,cruel personality,and poor disciplinary characteristics.Domestic violence can cause great harm to children.This article focuses on the analysis of these harms,and proposes countermeasures and suggestions for social work to intervene in domestic violence.It is hoped that they will be able to initiate and contribute to research in related fields.