The Research On Family Status Of Post-90s Rrural Women Under The Marriage Squeeze

The change of the status of women has always been one of the hot spots in the academic circles.Since the founding of New China,especially after the reform and opening up,the social status and family status of women have been significantly improved.Most studies show that the promotion of women's family status is inseparable from the women coming out of the family and going to work.But in some rural areas,many women stay at home and economically dependent on their husbands,but they can control the finances of the family,and have the right to control every single things in the family.Concern and study of this phenomenon need to be connected with the social facts of the countryside.This paper explore the paradox of the family status of the post-90 s married women.First of all,this article investigate the situation of marriage squeeze in the post-90 s marriage market in the case of X Village,and analyzes the reasons combined with the theory of marriage market and the actual situation of X Village.Then,adopts the method of qualitative unstructured interview on this basis.Points out a paradox situation of“dependent-control” under the family status of the post-90 s married women in the context of marriage squeeze from the two angles of family decision-making power and autonomy.This paradox is not only related to the gender structure,marriage cost and other factors in the context of marriage squeeze,but also the different degree of emotional dependence between husband and wife promoting the improvement of the wife's status in the process of fighting for the real power of the family by using the advantage of gender,which is the most important thing,from the perspective of relative love and need theory,under the influence of male squeeze.Last,analyzes the positive effect of the status of “dependent-control” on the individual and life of women,and points out that under the role of “dependent-control” of women,it causes the occurring of family internal role anomie and divorce,and puts forwardrelated suggestions such as the establishment of the correct concept of marriage,develop the positive guidance of moral public opinion and other relevant suggestions.