Group Work Intervenes In The Interpersonal Dilemma Of The Elderly Living Alone In Cities

Society in constant progress,changed the structure of the family,slowly towards miniaturization development,most young children and the elderly life,living separately,some are in pursuit of my own business and went to the country,these social phenomenon directly can make a lot of old people who live alone.Old people who live alone is a special disadvantaged groups,they not only in the aspect of mental health care,daily life has a lot of problems,but also face many difficulties in interpersonal communication.They live alone in the other half left,lack of concern and care from family,a person to live for a long time,object,the lack of communication in daily life is extremely monotonous,their social intercourse frequency less and less,life surrounded by loneliness,the relative lack of emotional support,started to become withdrawn gradually their character,self closed,the old man was in trouble in interpersonal communication.It is not only related to the healthy development of the elderly living alone,but also the stability and harmony of the society.Of this study is based on Nanjing gulou L community old people who live alone,for example,to internship agency service for the old project "wisdom" of enjoyed over as the backing,to old people who live alone interpersonal problems as the focus,adopt the method of group work to step in solitary old man interpersonal difficulties problem,in our previous questionnaire and scale of the measurement,we found that the old people who live alone there are many difficulties in interpersonal communication,it summarized as two aspects of emotion and behavior,as follows:in the emotional expression is emotional self sealing,emotional,cognitive bias,inferiority complex and pessimistic negative;Behavior is behavior withdrawal,escape from the crowd and self-denial.The causes of problems in the above two aspects are analyzed as follows:1.Personal level:psychological trauma factors,physical diseases,narrow interpersonal communication and poor mental life;Ii.Family level:changes in family structure;3.Community level:insufficient community support;Iv.Social aspects:time,space and distance limitation,related policies are weak.Through the analysis above,we selected 10 elderly people who lived alone as the objects of service,and used the method of group work to carry out intervention work.In the study group work mode of choice is developmental mode,in the process of team to carry out,old people who live alone for interaction between each other,each other to form identity,gradually formed the emotional support,in order to improve the problems of interpersonal communication.By conducting "fate let us meet each other","love and sharing","I participate,I happiness","together","found love,feel love","this is my","intended-and not to take a hint when a hint is not intended","bye" the eight times theme group activities to improve his interpersonal difficulties,make the old man no longer living in solitude and closed all day long,helping them to set up the confidence,let the old man can carry on the social life again.Enjoy social life.The activities are evaluated and summarized after each activity to improve the activity.After the activity,through to evaluate activities can be found that interpersonal conditions of solitary old man made a lot of improvement,intervention is effective for the team,is feasible,but if you want to better solve the problem of the solitary old man interpersonal difficulties still needs more resources integration and exploration.