Investigation And Research On Parental Stress And Coping Style Of "Two-child Family"

“ To promote the balanced development of population,the full implementation of a couple can have two children policy ” is China's fifth plenary session of the 18 th major population decision.The full implementation of this new fertility policy is an important sign of the coming of the Second Child Age in China.Although the arrival of the second child brings a series of happiness to the family,it also brings a series of parental pressure to the parents.From the point of view of the parents of “two-child family”,this study will help to perfect the present situation of “two-child family”,strengthen the parents' ability to cope with the parental pressure,and help to alleviate the parental pressure.This research uses the interview method and the questionnaire survey method unifies the method,the parenting stress of parents in“two-child family”is divided into five dimensions:The stress of children's upbringing,the stress of children not adapting to the external environment,the stress of life adjustment,the stress of interpersonal interaction disorder and the stress of parent-child interaction disorder.A survey was conducted among 30 parents of“two-child families” in Shenyang and a questionnaire survey was conducted among 360 families of “two-child families” in Liaoning Province in order to understand the current situation of parental stress in “two-child families”,this paper also explores the problems of parental stress and coping style in “ two-child family ”,and then puts forward some suggestions to ease the parental stress and establish a good parent-child relationship.Through the analysis of the parents' job stress and coping style of the “ two-child family”,we can find that: At this stage,the present situation of parental stress and coping style in “two-child family” is as follows:(1)parental stress mainly focuses on three aspects:the stress of children's upbringing,the stress of life adjustment,and the stress of interpersonal interaction disorder,the children felt lower pressure in the aspects of the pressure of not adapting to the outside environment and the pressure of parent-child interaction disorder.Due to the limited time and energy of the parents,the old people in the family take part of the responsibility of taking care of the children for the parents,but there is always a difference between the old people and the young parents because of their different educational ideas.But the differences were gradually resolved through communication and coordination betweenparents and the elderly.(3)mothers bear the primary responsibility for child care and fathers and other family members give less support to mothers,leading to inadequate care for mothers within the family and to increased conflict between husband and wife.(4)parents' emOtional investment in the two children is not balanced,in general is to accompany the second child more time than the older child,and the older child more emotional communication.(5)the social support system is not perfect,and although the state has been advocating policy support for families with two children,it has not been put in place.Based on the study of parenting stress and coping style in “two-child family”,the researchers put forward suggestions from parents and government.From the parents' point of view:(1)parents should relieve the stress of parental duties and cultivate positive personality traits;(2)parents should have correct and clear cognition of the role orientation of parental duties;(3)parents should adjust the relationship between work and family well;(4)parents should treat their two children equally;(5)parents should maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.From the government's point of view:(1)the government should strengthen the guidance of the Second Child Child Discipline Service;(2)the government should improve and implement the Employment Security System for women;and(3)the government should gradually improve the supporting support for the second child policy.