A Case Study Of The Impact Of Parental Divorce On Children's Growth From The Perspective Of Caring

Nowadays,divorce is no longer a fresh word and there are many children living in the families whose parents have divorced.It's the divorce that comes with the separation of the whole family,and the children will be separated from one of their parents,also,the children will undergo a series of changes in this process.This study takes individual cases as an example,trying to penetrate the heart of a child whose parents divorced.This paper will analyze the effects of these words and deeds on children and dissect the underlying causes and explore the possible solutions by showing the actual state of parents' behavior and words when they divorced.Based on the care ethics theory of Nel Noddings,the most authoritative expert,this article will start with the four methods:"role modeling","dialogue","recognition" and "practice" of morality education,and combine the actual situation of interviewees to explore the influence of parents on children in different aspects.I will start from the collected data and mainly focus on the two dimensions of "role model" and "dialogue" to describe the behavior and words of parents when they divorced.Among them,"role model" mainly refers to the parents'behavior of divorce,that is,dealing with the issues related to the divorce,and focusing on the teaching aspect."Dialogue" mainly refers to the parents' words when divorced,that is,dealing with the related words of divorce,focusing on the communication level,and the emphasis is on words.Based on this,the article includes four parts.The first part is the introduction,which explains the reasons and significance of the topic,the current situation,concept definition,research method and the choice of research object.The second part is the first chapter,which mainly introduces the basic situation and background of the research object,including the parents' educational background,the basic situation of marriage and the social and cultural atmosphere.The third part concludes the second and third chapters,which respectively focus on "role model" and "dialogue" to analyze the influence of interviewees on these two aspects.The fourth part contains the last two chapters.According to the second and third chapters,I will analyze the reasons for the influence of parents'words and deeds on children in the fourth chapter,and I try to explore the feasible countermeasures in the fifth chapter.Through the in-depth interviews and comparative analysis of my own childhood experience,I analyze the phenomenon and influence of "abandonment","facing the child's response without recourse" and "fear of marriage" standing in the dual position of the researcher and the interviewee.And I am more sure that some of parents' words and actions about divorce will undoubtedly have an irreversible impact on children.But some of the effects can be avoided or eliminated.These influences mainly affect children's moral growth through their parents' parenting style,and can also be self-healing through the children themselves,so as to alleviate the negative effects.However,it should be noted that any factor could not be a single source of influence.The impact of divorce on children is not just from the matter of parental divorce itself,in addition to the parents' words and behaviors about the divorce,the children themselves,the family environment,the school,the social and cultural atmosphere are also the factors that cannot be ignored.