The Manifestation And Influence Of The Lack Of Parental Care For Single-parent Left-behind Children In Rural Areas From The Perspective Of Parental Education

Family is the most important social place for children,parents are the first teachers of children,and every individual from birth to grow close relationships form the basis of the earliest,in children grow up learning process,parents’ education participation is one of the most important family factors affect children personality perfect.However,in rural left-behind children this group of single parent,the term "parent" is just a call,there even have not seen his mother side,parents lack of love to bring the growth of a series of difficulties.During the course of their lives,not closest to mom and dad,but grandparents or other guardians,raised by every generation is that they have to face the reality.In addition,the guardian’s poor education way in their heart was hurt on the gloom,an adverse impact.Therefore,this research attempts to single from rural left-behind children lack of parents care impact on performance and,with parental education perspective to explore how to make love to stay.This study using qualitative research,data collection mainly use the interview method,respondents mainly from gansu longnan,out,qingyang three cities of some rural areas,considering the relationship between age and cognitive level,this research selected objects are senior students in primary school,which is 3 to grade 6,the average age of 10.75 years,up to 13 years old(the sixth grade),minimum of 9 years(grade three)8,in which four boys and eight girls,interview students a total of 12 people,guardian 12 people,the teacher in charge 3 people,this study interviewed 21 of 27 respondents,the rest of the two students and parents use We Chat voice interviews,there are two teachers use We Chat interview way to chat.Data analysis with the aid of QSR Nvivo 11.0 qualitative analysis software for editing,coding,and data statistics construct(construct)frequency operation,such as using a generic method on the basis of analyzing software and situational method to complete the paper main body writing,the final use case comparative analysis to discuss the results of the study.The results show that the lack of parental care for single-parent left-behind children in rural areas is mainly manifested in the phenomenon of mother leaving the field caused by the mother’s divorce or accidental death,the father’s going out to work or the irrespective absence of parental love,and their emotional attachment in the absence of both parents when become their caregiver,no longer their parents.At the same time,the lack of parental care is also manifested in a different understanding of care.The impact of the lack of parental care is mainly focused on basic life and care.The elderly and sickly caregivers have financial difficulties for their families due to limited labor.After the basic life is guaranteed,the important task of school-age children is education and learning.The interpersonal activities that accompany learning activities are also a part that cannot be ignored.Good peer relationships and teacher-student relationships can appropriately compensate for the lack of parent-child relationship.The bad peer relationship and teacher-student relationship will exacerbate the psychological and emotional impact.The ultimate goal of education and learning is ideal and future,and there is a huge gap between their ideals and reality.But the study found that a single problem of left-behind children is not the same as children,not all of the single left-behind children are poor development,for single rural left-behind children this group,should not be used to generalize,black and white view of them.In this study found that not all the children are poor development,to develop good or bad is caused by various factors,parents lack of caring is just one of the important factors,and later supported this way is also inseparable.Therefore,as to the discussion of the question of how to raise my children will need to return to the perspective of parental education.Therefore,this study from the perspective of parents,guardians,law angle discusses how to "let love stay",to solve the lack of parents take care of this social phenomenon provides suggestions and countermeasures.