Research On College Students’ Love And Marriage Anxiety From The Perspective Of Social Gender

As a special group of students,college students have a high level of culture and education,although they have not really stepped into the society,however,it is the representative of the students who pay the most attention to the society and have the closest contact with the society.Influenced and influenced by the social environment,college students shoulder the mission of history,carry the hope and trust of the party and the people,and their growth relates to the future of the nation.Since the beginning of the new century,college students love has gradually become a universal trend,love has become an important part of college life.But at the same time,most college students who have just finished high school lack the necessary knowledge and social experience to deal with the problem of love and marriage,and are “Freshmen” in the love and marriage class,under the mutual influence and impact of traditional cultural ideas and Western ideas of love and marriage in the rapid social transformation period,college students in the frontier of ideology are prone to be at a loss,confused and anxious about marriage and love.In addition,because male and female college students have different gender roles,their subjective gender experience of love and marriage also has some differences.Happiness,good love and marriage,the emotional and emotional state of college students,is conducive to the physical and mental health of college students,their personal growth and development of a good role will accompany them throughout their lives.At the same time,college students,as a special group with representative significance among contemporary youth,their love,marriage and spouse selection can,to a certain extent,reflect the trend of value orientation of young people in love and marriage,to some extent,it is also related to the stable operation and long-term development of the society.Therefore,it is of great practical significance to investigate and study the marriage anxiety of college students.Starting from the perspective of gender,based on the different gender groups of college students,using the method of combining qualitative research with quantitative research,on the basis of full understanding of previous relevant research materials,by conducting in-depth interviews with 23 college students of different sexes,the activities of college students in love and love can be divided into two stages: love choosing and maintaining,marriage choosing and marriage and family,and based on this analysis,summed up the gender of college students in love and marriage anxiety on the specific characteristics of the specific performance of the different show.Among them,in the stage of choosing spouse and maintaining love,female college students mainly have appearance,sex and parental interference anxiety,male college students have love consumption,emotional depression and development prospect anxiety;Female College students mainly have career development,housework and fertility anxiety,male college students have economic and career achievement anxiety.Based on the above discussion and from the perspective of gender,this paper concludes that the marriage anxiety of college students of different sexes is caused by three factors: social culture and mass media,employment system and marriage system,as well as the lack of individual gender consciousness.In view of this,this paper argues that we should break the traditional gender culture,promote the construction of advanced gender culture,introduce gender consciousness into the employment system and mass media,and create a policy and cultural environment of gender equality,at the root of the problem,we should reduce the source of anxiety,improve the subject consciousness of coping with the stress,alleviate the anxiety,and promote gender equality and the development of both sexes.