| The family is the basic cell of the society.Paying attention to family,family education and family style is of great significance for the country to seek development,make national progress together and promote social harmony.In 2015,the Ministry of Education of the People’s Republic of China promulgated the Guiding Opinions of the Ministry of Education on Strengthening Family Education,which mentioned: " Constantly update the concept of family education,adhere to the guidance of moral education,and guide children to gradually form a correct world outlook,outlook on life and values with a correct view of parenting and talent." In2021,the Standing Committee of the 13 th National People’s Congress voted to pass the Law of the People’s Republic of China on Family Education Promotion,and this legislation has become another milestone in education reform and development in the new era.Improving the quality of family education and improving the parents’ concept of parenting is the appeal of the development of The Times,but also the hot focus of the society at present.In this study,226 groups of families and preschool teachers were taken as the research objects.Based on the family system theory,empirical research was used to conduct in-depth interpretation and analysis of the parents’ parenting concept.In order to have a deep understanding of the current situation of parents ’parenting concept of the second child,this study uses the interview method,questionnaire method,literature method and other methods to obtain information related to parents’ parenting concept.Finally according to the theoretical framework of parenting,through children,parenting,expectations,parents,fertility five dimensions of two child parents parenting,the results show that the "two children" parents affected by the degree of education of the children,common children,expectations of different birth order children,the degree of affinity subject to children age,grandparents upbringing and parenting differences between the operation of the family system.Finally to understand the second child of the challenges facing parents parenting explore two children parents child rearing the problems and the reasons behind.This study from the family level,the kindergarten level and social level to guide the child parents’ parenting practices and put forward several proposals to the next generation of physical and mental health.Parents should take the initiative to learn parenting knowledge and attention to children’s mental health.Parents should give their big child "burden" and strengthen the discipline of the child.Parents should give full play to the interactions between compatriots value.Kindergarten building only child family with two children family communication platform,sharing scientific child-raising experience.Increase the parent-child interactive activities,penetrating family education knowledge.Government should strictly control the public opinion direction,establishing parent education knowledge network learning platform.Strengthen the training teachers and parents,improve the whole quality of teachers and parents. |
