A Case Study On The Relationship Between Husband And Wife Of Left-behind Women In Rural Areas

With the continuous expansion of urbanization,more and more rural laborers go out to work.The remaining wives who stay at home take care of their children,engage in agricultural production and other affairs,shouldering great pressure of life.They live apart from their husbands for a long time,and the discrete family life is easy to lead to the gap between husband and wife and the deepening of contradictions.In order to prevent the adverse effects of the deterioration of the relationship on the rural left-behind women and improve the life happiness of the left-behind women,it is necessary to deeply analyze the reasons behind the contradictions,clarify the basic needs of the rural left-behind women in this context,and provide services to alleviate the pressure caused by the contradiction between husband and wife.This case work service takes the family system theory as the theoretical basis,and focuses on the psychotherapy paradigm of interpersonal interaction.It transcends the limitations of individual treatment and takes family interaction disorders as a breakthrough in dealing with marital conflicts.By using the research methods of case work,participatory observation,semi-structured interview and questionnaire survey,the most representative left-behind woman Z was selected as the research object,and the relationship between the client and her husband was analyzed from the perspective of family system theory.At present,the relationship between the client and her husband has the following problems : First,poor communication and low level of self-differentiation.Family members lack positive interaction,and the client ’s self-control over emotions is weak,resulting in a low degree of self-differentiation and difficulty in effective communication.The second is the imbalance of economic and emotional connection function.The left-behind life transfers the responsibility that should have been shared by the husband and wife to the case owner,the family function is disordered,and the family balance is broken.Third,chronic anxiety is expanding,and the relationship between rights and obligations is wide.Because of poor communication with each other,the client is easy to imagine the intervention of the opposite sex as the fuse of the contradiction between husband and wife,doubting the husband ’ s life outside,reducing the trust of the husband and wife,promoting the extension of chronic anxiety,and the unequal family decision-making power and housework of the husband and wife.Fourth,the triangular relationship is complicated.According to the family system theory,the addition of the third member of the family was originally intended to alleviate the contradiction between the husband and wife between the client and the husband,but in the actual development process,it deepened the anxiety,making the triangle relationship between family members.The phenomenon of alienation and the failure of the family subsystem.And to carry out a needs assessment of the client,clarify the client ’ s physiological needs,psychological needs,and social needs when there is a problem in the relationship between the two.In terms of physiological needs,social workers guide the client to talk actively,understand the decline of the client ’ s physical function,and avoid many health risks by reducing housework.In terms of psychological needs,through the skills of concentration and listening,the emotional distress faced by the client is caused by the bad interaction mode and closed wrong cognition.The family communication mode is hindered,and the non-local couples lack communication skills and contact opportunities,resulting in the accumulation of family contradictions.In terms of social needs,left-behind life increases the labor intensity and labor time of the client,shortens personal leisure time,and lacks supportive social activities.Because agricultural production cannot meet the needs of family development,it is eager to seek a job,obtain income,and improve economic discourse power to adapt to society and balance economic relations between husband and wife.In the implementation stage of the case,with the help of the " online+ offline" interview form,a dialogue on the case owner,the husband and children of the case,and the attitude of understanding,understanding,and processing of each member of the husband and wife clearly grasped each member.Family joint meetings,provide a platform for common communication,and promote the methods and countermeasures of the party,family and social workers and social workers to improve the relationship between husband and wife.Social workers build professional work relationships and trust through objects such as the owner,based on family communication forms.This system starts with the entire contradiction,rather than blame the problem on individual members,and propose an important role in building a negotiated and equal family interactive model for alleviating the relationship between husband and wife.Starting from the macro social policy,the surrounding environment systems of the macro social policy,the mid-view of the mid-view,and the personal system at the micro level,a certain solution strategy is proposed to alleviate the dilemma faced by more rural left-behind women in the relationship between husband and wife,enhance women’ s personal well-being and life Satisfaction.