On Studying Cultivation Of Healthy Psychology Of Children In Divorced Families

Along with the further enhancement of the policy of openning up to the outside world in our country,and the daily frequent foreign trade to the outside and the mutual collision between Chinese culture and the Western culture, People's ideas are also having changed quietly. But the transformation of the marital idea in the society can bring about the phenomenon which a amount of divorced families are having being inceasingly emerged, and this can lead to not only the unstable factor of social drastic change, but also the huge threat to the social harmonious development in our country. Therefore, settling down this problem not only has the significantly theorical significance to psychological health of children in divorced families, but also has the profound practical significance. The structure imperfection of the divorced families has certain influence to the divorced families children's growth. Children in the divorced families are being in the important stage of their bodies' and mind's development. If the enough attention has not been paid to about this and the feasible measures have not been taken, then it will be possible that it has the negative influence to the development of various aspects including the personality,the mood,the cognition and the behavior of children ,and so on. Because the divorce families meant this situation which "the triangle structure" composed by the two kind of most basic relations including the parentage relation and the relation between husbands and wives has changed, and this can cause not-adaptation between various members in the families.But the children in the divorced families will be greatly attacked because they are in the weak trend.They are living in the shadow which the parents' divorce brings about, and this can give them the enormous wound. Therefore, psychologically healthy question of children in divorced families is inevitably important topic in the research world.This article separately discusses the factors for the affects children'growth from psychologically healthy horizon of children in divorced families,personality,the despondent degree and the parents educated aspects and so on,and proposes the feasible measures to cultivate psychological health of children in divorced families. The first part of this article mainly writes the proposed question, Chinese and foreign scholar's inspection condition in view of the psychological health of children in the divorced families and the correlate research technique.The second part uses main research technique--the questionnaire survey procedure, carries on the analysis to psychological health of children in divorced families, and points out the reasons.The third part is the key part of this article, and it gives the corresponding measures about the cultivation of psychological health of children in divorced families according to the reasons for the questions: First of all, the third part discusses it from the families' angle ( The main measures include: considering parents' factors, considering the factors of children in divorced families, discussing to promote the parentage and foundate the harmonious family atmosphere; Secondly, the third part analyzes it from the schools' angle (The main measures include: foundating psychology counselling stations, strengthening the communication and the cooperation between the schools and the families, organizing the students to participate the social practice and the loving concern game regularly, carring on the setback education to the student, raising the students' anti-setback ability); Finally, the third part discusses it from the social angle (There are several aspects as following: standarding media propaganda behaviors, consummation law's safeguard system, establishing social security mechanism, establishing community service mechanism). So ,three aspects of the family, the school and the social should fully considerate the question. Only in this way, can obtain the better results in the cultivation of psychological health of the children in divorce family.