On Suffering By Domestic Cold Violence Of Female Intellectual Group

With the acceleration rhythm of life and work as well as the universal enhancement of people education level , domestic violence is no longer behave as traditional fist and kick adding together merely, a new concealed violence——snub, ignore and such as the main characteristic of the mental abuse is developing and spreading quietly. Compared with the violent actions as the property which been called "hot violence", We call this "cold violence" whose characteristic present as "wordless" or "language lacking" aim to spirit hurt. In China, the "cold violence" is becoming a new family issue and can not be overlooked.Presently, the main physical harm of domestic violence has caused a certain degree of concern and attention, but the "cold violence" in spirit level has not been attention to sufficiently. People really know few about the "cold violence", and it is difficult to determine whether a certain behavior constituted the "cold violence" and the hurt level of it. The article elaborated domestic violence as well as domestic "cold violence" and the related concept thoroughly, definitude its connotation, the characteristic and the type and the evidence assuming, the dilemma of refrained the domestic "cold violence" is facing. The article selects 5 female intellectuals in Harbin who suffers from the domestic "cold violence", and analyzed the feeling course and the action they adopted when they faces domestic "cold violence" and the reason why they do not choose to divorce. Based on the course of formation, the article expounded and analyzed the "cold violence" causation mainly from three aspects: conflict theory, social factor and individual factor, to the production reason have carried on a more comprehensive analysis based on this, bring up several corresponding advises and countermeasures from the propaganda, the legislation, and social support networks.