"after 80" Study, College Students Concept Of Marriage

In present China, it is obviously that the "80's" cohort has turned out to be the mainly strength of our social development and the most part of university students. As they have grown up and been on the right age of falling love and getting married, it is so important to them to build healthy attitudes of love and marriage, that help them manage harmony relationships and happy families, and makes our society more harmonious and energetic as well. The results of this study including:how to guide them build healthy and rational attitudes of love and marriage; the "80's" university students will be the future of social development and families, what is the appearance and characteristic their attitudes of love and marriage like; it also make sense to improve the method of love and marriage education, and change the education into a more efficient way. Meanwhile, this study will prevent the"80's" university students from the social problems which are coursed by marriage and families with analysis and judgment. The subject of this study is the "80's" university students, which mixed by the "80's" cohort and the university students. The aim of this sociological study is discovering the universality and particularity in them.This paper based on the data from questionnaires and unstructured interviews of the students who come from 3 universities in Xi'an Shaanxi province. It investigates and analyses the attitudes of love and marriage in "80's" university students from 3 aspects such as attitudes of love, attitudes of marriage and attitudes of giving birth to children with quantitative analysis and qualitative analysis.This paper is divided into seven parts:The first chapter is introduction. It is including the aims and importance of the thesis, the definition of main conception, the review of research status and the method which has been chosen of the whole study.The second part is mainly elaborating the theoretical structure of healthy and rational views of love and marriage. The writer's discussion and analysis depend on three theoretical sights such as the love and marriage part of Chinese traditional culture, the views of love and marriage in Marxism and the structure of harmonious society in present China. Finally, the healthy and rational views of love and marriage are:absorbing the quintessence of Chinese traditional culture, fulfilling the Marxism views of love and marriage and put it into operation. Besides, unite individual, family and society as a harmonious whole.The third part is the analysis of the "80's" university students which is based on the survey. They are views of love, views of marriage and views of bearing. In the concrete, the views of love section are the aim of love, the pattern of love and spouses selection have turned into diversified mode, and the love issues are increasingly decided on one's own. the attitudes of love exist wildly and rational both. In the views of marriage section, the attitudes of sex are open and conservative, their opinions of marriage are modern and maturity. In the views of bearing section, the ideal number of children has been decreased, and the "favor of boy " has faded out of their mind, they will try their best to keep the balance between career and bearing as well.The fourth part is mainly describing the problems of "80's" university students in their views of love and marriage, which are the blind aim of love,the utilitarianism style of spouses selection, the wrong order of love and marriage, the double standard to virginity and the paradox between the "core-family wave" and the trend of "NEET"The fifth part is the factors which cause the problems. Multiple cultures and the open current tendencies in society, and the utilitarianism elements are fulfilled in this society. The self-enclosed campus and backward in sexual education, the deficiency in socialization of youth is also remained.The sixth part put forward some strategies and suggestions according to the personal socialization, which are family, school, peers and mass media. In addition, the paper point out that, it is a cooperate work to build the healthy and rational views of love and marriage in the "80's" university students.The seventh part is the brief summarization of the paper and the enlightenment of the study. Furthermore, there are improvements should be noticed, which are more normalized scale and deeper data analysis with more scientific sample.