A Research On The Love Well-being Questionnaire And Group Counseling Of College Students

Love well-being refers to people's overall evaluation of romantic relationship bytheir own standards. College is a special period for individuals; they are matured inphysiology with the desire for friendship, the need of communication with oppositesex, thirst for love, thus, it is common for college students to be in love in college. Inrecent years, there are increasing researches to analyze view of love, viewpoint ofspouse-selection. Basing on the sufficient literatures, the questionnaire of collegestudents' love well-being is made through interviews and open-ended questionnaire;the qualitative research method is employed to interview typical individuals so as tofind the influencing factors on college students' love well-being, which could providea theoretical foundation for emotional education of college students. On the basis ofthat, the research on cultivation of college students' love well-being is conducted, thespecific conclusions are as follows:(1)"Questionnaire on College Students Love Well-being" includes sixdimensions, that is, personality compatibility, the lovers' communication mode,common interests, mutual support, attitude to sex and mutual trust, for a total of23questions. The questionnaire has good reliability, validity, which could be used assurvey tool to study college students' love well-being.(2) College students' love well-being is different in lovers' communication mode,interests, and attitude to sex. Love well-being is unbalanced due to different time spanin love, the total score appeared a trend of low to high; in terms of personalitycompatibility, it showed a "low-high-low" tendency; in terms of communication modeand mutual trust, it appeared "high-low-high", in terms of mutual support and attitudeto sex, it manifested "low to high".(3) Factors that affect college students' love well-being include: the characterthat are admired by the other, the capacity that the both can get along with each otherwell, the original family structure and conditions.(4) Group counseling has certain effect in the improvement of college students'love well-being.