| As a special group of marriageable age,"after80s" are faced with some priorities, such as having a courtship, getting married, etc. And their attitudes towards courtship and marriage, as a consequence of their special living environment (such as reform and opening up policy, economic transformation, East and West cultural integration,etc)and the identity as the only children of the first generation, necessarily take on different characteristics and tendencies. Through the television program-"if you are the one", this thesis aims to get a good understanding of "after80s" city young men’s values related with love and marriage, such as love, family, spouse choosing, sexual relationship, etc, to describe the basic characteristics of the view on love and marriage and analyze the existing problems. In addition, the author analyzed the characteristics of the view on love and marriage and related problems from the perspective of sociology and finally formed some applicable suggestions.Based on this research,"after80s" city young men’s views on love and marriage take on the following characteristics:attaching more importance to women’s inner quality, ease the requirements about women’s location and age, diversification of ways of having a courtship, more tolerant of chastity, etc. What’s more, view on love and marriage is influenced by several factors, such as individual quality, social and cultural environment, economy and educational background. Also, there exist some problems about the view on love and marriage of the "after80s" city young men, which require concerted efforts of individuals, family, school, social media and other various channels to help them form healthy view on love and marriage.According to this research, this thesis basically describes the situation of the view on love and marriage of "after80s" city young men, and then I draw some conclusions from it, hoping to offer some guidance and assistance in their courtship, marriage and spouse choosing. |