Study On Harmonious Interpersonal Relationship Constructing Of College Students

Harmony is the common pursuit and dream of mankind. In the21st century,harmony is the theme of the times. Today, under the atmosphere of building a socialistharmonious society, harmonious interpersonal relationship is still one of the goals weare seeking. The college stage is the important turning period that the college studentsare socialized, it is also the period when they probe the life, know the society andmaster knowledge. In the course of college, the students create good relations bycontacting and interchanging each other, this is the important substance and the basiccondition for the college students mental and physical growth, it also helps thestudents promote their career development. In the background the central party haslisted the development of harmonious human relations as one of the aims and maintasks of the socialist harmonious society construction, the college students are thereserve forces of our country development, so how their human relations develop isworth paying attention to.From a macro Point of view: on the on the hand, college students withharmonious interpersonal relationships is an important part of the socialistharmonious society; on the other hand, harmony of college students’ interpersonalrelationships or not also directly related to whether the socialist harmonious societycan be smoothly achieved. From the student point of view, a harmonious interpersonalrelationship is directly related to whether their health can be developed in an all-roundand achieving self-worth.This Paper shows the features of open，pluralistic，independent of the cooperativedevelopment. However this development has also displayed a change in many of thepractical issues，such as utilitarian, indifference, conflict, loss of, and so on; these arethe crux of the building harmonious interpersonal relationships. At the same time, thepaper has also analysis the profound cause of personal detuning of university students:on the one hand, from a social point of view, it is rooted in a series of profound influence brought by social transformation; on the other hand, from the main point ofthe their own, here are exchanges in the cognitive, emotional and ability barriers. Soonly to guide and standardize exchanges between college students and adjustment, asso far as possible, eliminate all factors can be achieved disharmony betweenuniversity students to realize equal respect, sincerity, friendliness, courtesy oftolerance harmonious and mutually beneficial win-win type of interpersonalrelationship. The authors form the angels of school, community and studentsthemselves, give a proposal of building a strategy and concrete measures, startingwith the main point of their own, college students should learn how to self-adjust andbe good at communication. Secondly, College should give full play to guide the roleof education and exchanges regulate coordination detuning interpersonal relationships;Furthermore, the parties should also vigorously create a harmonious environment,including school, social contacts and network environment.This article is divided into four parts: The first part of the thesis introduces thetopic selection basis, research purpose and meaning, research situation, basic thoughts,research methods and innovation points, etc. Second on the analysis of theconnotation of the interpersonal relationship and for college students, and harmoniousinterpersonal relationship is defined, the objective summarizes the characteristics ofuniversity students’ harmonious interpersonal relationship, and at the same time, thispaper introduces the harmonious college students of interpersonal relationship in theMarxist of social relations of interpersonal communication and interpersonalcommunication theory; The third part of the contemporary university students in thepresent situation of the interpersonal relationship, respectively, summarizes theharmonious interpersonal relationship between college students and the presentsituation of the current situation of the harmonious specific performance, andemphatically according to the present situation of the harmonious social causes andperformance respectively from two aspects such as individual reason to analysis thereasons; The fourth part puts forward to construct the harmonious interpersonalrelationship of contemporary college students’ growth of meaning, and separatelyfrom the building internal conditions and external conditions of the two aspectstargeted to put forward the construction of harmonious human relationship method ofcollege students.The Paper further pointed out in the concluding remark: harmoniousinterpersonal relations of the contemporary college students Countermeasures can not be accomplished overnight, nor the matter once and for all, it needs people in differentperiod of constant attention and in-depth study.