Study On Harmonious Interpersonal Relationship Construction Of Contemporary College Students

An old Chinese saying goes, "Opportunities vouchsafed by Heaven are less important than terrestrial advantages, which in turn are less important than the unity among people." This fully shows the importance of harmonious interpersonal relationships. Today, under the atmosphere of building a socialist harmonious society, harmonious interpersonal relationship is still one of the goals we are seeking. College students as an important and special social group, their interpersonal relations have attracted more and more educator's extensive attention. Particularly at present, with the transformation of Chinese society, the contemporary college students have also emerged more interpersonal dimension and multi-level changes, just as this paper shows : the Features of open, pluralistic, independent of the Cooperative Development.However, this development has also displayed a change in many of the practical issues, such as utilitarian, indifference, conflict, loss of, and so on; these are the crux of the building harmonious interpersonal relationships. At the same time, the paper has also analysis the profound cause of personal detuning of university students: on the one hand, from a social point of view, it is rooted in a series of profound influence brought by social transformation; on the other hand ,from the main point of their own ,here are exchanges in the cognitive, emotional and ability barriers.So, only to guide and standardize exchanges between college students and adjustment, as far as possible, eliminate all factors can be achieved disharmony between university students to realize equal respect, sincerity, friendliness, courtesy of tolerance, harmonious and mutually beneficial win-win type of interpersonal relationship.The authors from the angels of school, community and Students themselves ,give a proposal of building a strategy and concrete measures, starting with the main point of their own, college students should learn how to self-adjust and be good at communication. Secondly, College should give full play to guide the role of education and exchanges regulate coordination detuning interpersonal relationships; Furthermore, the parties should also vigorously create a harmonious environment, including school, social contacts and network environment.