Invesgation And Research On The Family Educating Way And Adaption To The Kindergarden Of Rural Chidren

In this study, the way of family nurture refers to the main breeding people in raising children, children in education, in the process of relatively stable education idea, attitude and long-term breeding habit of education behavior; Rural family upbringing refers to the main rural children educated people in the process of raising and nurturing children/grandchildren relatively stable education idea, education behavior attitude and habit for a long time. Children adapt refers to a small baby in the park from home to kindergarten this turning point in the process, to gradually realize the kindergarten environment request, thus from psychological and behavioral adjustment in order to achieve the process of acceptance of the kindergarten life. Family is a place where children before the age of three main life, and educated people movements are affecting the development of young children, this study analyzes the educated people in daily life breeding way of family nurture and kindergarten in the relationship between the adaptation.This research adopts the questionnaire investigation, observation method, interview method to investigate the small rural way of family nurture and their children into the garden to adapt to the characteristics of, and different ways of family domestic young children to adapt to the situation in the park. The following conclusions:A. Small rural way of family nurture children, there are four main democratic authoritative, pamper NiAiXing respectively, absolutely authoritative, ignore cold type. In this study, the most authoritative family upbringing, democracy is occupied48%, pamper NiAiXing family upbringing is23%, absolutely authoritative family upbringing is19%, ignore cold type at least,10%.Second, the different way of family nurture have different characteristics. Democratic authoritative family upbringing in child care at the same time, also maintained a degree of control, maintain moderate attitude to children, and children take open attitude and way to communicate. Absolutely authoritative parenting way to give children love and also to great control of most of the children’s behavior, the communication with the children with strict attitude and way, to maintain the majesty of as parents. Pamper NiAiXing way of family nurture excessive care for children, young children’s behavior, there are few control to stop the behavior not to stop. Ignore cold type of educated people in the family upbringing, seldom care for young children, lack of care for children, don’t understand with their children together to do something, there is very little control of young children’s words and deeds, not attention for the advantages and disadvantages of young children also, there is very little emotional communication with children.Three, all the children in the garden in the process of adaptation, arrange to adapt to the best of life, follow the rules to adapt to the worst, arrange order to adapt to the life, abide by the rules, emotional stability, interpersonal relationships, learning activities.Four, different ways of family education of children in the process of adapt to the kindergarten life, has a similar place, under the way of family nurture children in terms of the cuisine of life basically can wash your hands, wearing shoes, take off their shoes, eat and sleep. Active tidying in can abide by the rules, don’t rob toy, but can’t eat not to speak, not in the classroom. Adapt to the kindergarten life emotional stability, interpersonal relationships, learning activities, under the way of family nurture children have different performance.Based on the results of the study, the author of young children into the park, first proposed the idea of two aspects:one is a teacher to understand each way of family nurture children, according to different way of family nurture infants and young children, to give you the performance of the calm, to pay attention to every child, and doesn’t adapt to children’s patience, more communication and cooperation with young children’s upbringing, understand children from YuanHou, into the garden in front of the various performance. Secondly, the different way of family nurture in the daily life in the process of nurturing children should cultivate their children’s ability to eat, sleep and gradually develop their independent ability, and cultivate children quiet eating habits, reduce the behavior of the scattered children’s attention; As for other aspects, different way of family nurture breeding should be according to children’s performance.