Research The Problem Of Rural Youth’ Mate Selection Concept

With the development of the times and promotion of the integration of urban and rural. In rural areas, rural youth are the most youngest and dynamic. They are influenced by outside cultures, the idea of mate choice has changed. Mate selection concept showed obvious social and times. Taking A village of Jilin Province empirical research, on the basis of Mate Selection Gradient Theory, Resource Exchange Theory, Similar Matching Theory, makes an empirical analysis of A village of Jilin province, Using questionnaires and in-depth interviews, exploring the problems that the rural youth spouse problems and making recommendationsThe article has the following four parts:First of all, the introduction part. This article will expound the purpose and significance of the research, and points out some concepts and related theories, combined with the actual situation, put forward research ideas and research methods.The first part is A village of Jilin Province General Situation and Characteristic Analysis as the sample, young people in A village as the sample, from five areas,mate motivation, mate methods, mate standards, mate attitude, mate confidence, and spouse status of married groups, carried empirical study. The second part is the problem of rural youth’ mate selection concept, The research shows four problems, namely, Spouse utilitarian motives still exists; Careless attitude of Spouse; Excessive pursuit of the ideal Spouse; Spouse confidence of men is weakThe third part is analysis factors of the problem of rural youth’ mate selection concept. Mainly analysis from the individual, family, social aspects.The Fourth part is put forward countermeasures to set up correct mate selection concept for rural youth. From improving their quality, strengthen family education guidance and creating a good social atmosphere three angles.For the problem of rural youth’ mate selection concept, In this paper, rural youth should improve their quality and ability, Set up correct mate selection concept. Family should increase family income, guide children right mate selection. Country should develop the rural economy, narrow the urban-rural gap, rich cultural life in rural areas. Promote scientific and concept mate selection concept. To create a good mate rural environment, let them right to face the problem of mate selection. Establish scientific mate selection concept..