The Research Of Education To Contemporary College Students About Friendliness

To get along well with people is the basic virtue of maintaining harmonious interpersonal relationship.In a modern society with high mobility and close interpersonal relationships,friendliness becomes more and more important.And how to develop a noble and friendly character,how to treat people with friendliness? In today's college students is still a question to be examined and clear.We try to from a friendly connotations and friendly people's moral significance of basic logic to make clear friendly in today's personal moral cultivation,the construction of socialist moral value,and look at the shortcomings of today's college students,friendliness education of college students,friendliness in universities,and analyzes the and demonstration.The author summarized through literature,questionnaire survey method,conducted a survey on the friendliness of contemporary college students,through the analysis of the survey data,summarizes the specific performance of the university student friendliness problems,problems of contemporary college students friendly character has the following phenomenon: first,friendliness exercise is passive;second,friendly behavior and friendly consciousness there is a disconnect;third,vague on the friendly connotation.And from the three aspects of individuals,schools,social and family reasons: personal friendly character,initiative of contemporary college students' learning is not strong,friendliness exercise willpower is not strong,and could not fully understand the positive significance of friendliness;school,practice,not only the lack of friendliness education lack of friendly campus atmosphere building,and has failed to give full play to the exemplary role of teachers;the family and society,on the one hand,due to the lack of laws and regulations,social ethos has influence on College Students' friendly character,on the other hand,family friendly character education of college students are lack of.According to the survey data and analysis results,combined with the related theoretical achievements available in the academic field,the reason for the contemporary college students friendly character problems,the author puts forward corresponding countermeasures: education about friendliness of contemporary college students in the classroom,should be based on the "theory" to deepen the friendly way of Education to help students overcome the vague understanding of the connotation of friendly the problem with "creating classroom practice" way to overcome the issue of student friendly exercise;timeliness in the classroom next to friendliness and education by the three aspects of morality,the Internet platform construction,campus spirit construction;finally in the individual students who,to train the student to the friendly identity and active learning friendliness,friendliness practice ability.It is of great significance for college students to have a friendly character education,which is a long and systematic process.