| Out of the help of vulnerable groups,the government and social organizations have invested more and more human,material and financial resources in the employment,education,medical rehabilitation,and legal rights protection of disabled people.But in general,the society currently still focuses on meeting the physiological needs and security needs of the disabled,while the emotional and affiliation needs of disabled youth is always marginalized.In fact,the disabled youth are full of yearning for marriage and love,but they often encounter hidden pains and dilemmas in the reality.This article takes the representative public power in Ningbo,the "Dane Mama Red Bride Group" as the entry point.Through the referral of the Group,the article has explored five groups of representative youth disability stories.As an important social support force,the Red Bride Group is embodied throughout the text.Based on the exploration of the inner world and real experience of the disabled youth,this article begins with the love d:ilemma of the disabled youth,and proposes that in the love stage,the disabled youth may encounter general predicament like special"squint chain",the extremely difficult material threshold(employment and economic burden),the inferiority and embarrassment in front of love,as well as the loopholes of the popularization of primary education.While revealing the predicament,the paper also shows the love status and psychology of the disabled youth and their extreme yearning for love.Secondly,this article further traces the marriage life of the disabled youth,and finds that the dilemma faced by the disabled youth is also reflected in the life after marriage.The dilemma mainly include invisible institutional barriers,special contradictions in marriage life,hesitation on pregnancy and troubles on kids education.When the article raises those questions,it also envisages corresponding solutions to make the report more realistic.Finally,based on the unique value of social assistance,the paper proposes that as an inventor of the love and marriage of the disabled youth,social forces can become precious active coordinators and policy influencers,and help disabled young people with inner occlusion to broaden the social circle and enhance self-confidence.At the same time,the article also calls for the support of the government,so that we can move from finding problems to solving problems,and raising the society’s attention to the problem of marriage and love for the disabled. |
