Study On The Relationship Between Father’s Parenting Psychological Flexibility,Father-child Attachment And Children’s Problem Behavior

Children’s problem behavior refers to various behaviors that affect their character and physical and mental health development in early childhood,which have adverse effects on others or themselves and repeatedly occur,such as companion communication problems,emotional problems,etc.Problem behavior can be divided into internalized problem behavior and externalized problem behavior.The internalized problem behavior includes emotional problems and peer interaction problems,and the externalized behavior includes hyperactivity disorder and conduct behavior problems.Problem behaviors occur frequently in the early stage of learning and are characterized by stability.If adults do not pay attention and intervene in time to correct,children’s early problem behaviors will continue until adolescence or even after adulthood,thus affecting the development of individual socialization,cognition,personality and other aspects.Family is the earliest place for children to live and educate,and has a close relationship with children’s behavior development.As the main nurturer of young children,the father’s psychological flexibility has a direct impact on children’s problem behavior.At the same time,the level of father-child attachment is also one of the important factors that affect children’s problem behavior.Therefore,this study investigates the relationship between the father’s psychological flexibility in parenting,father-child attachment and children’s problem behavior by investigating the status quo of children’s problem behavior,aiming to understand the influencing factors of children’s problem behavior,explore the influence path of father’s psychological flexibility in parenting and father-child attachment,and reduce the probability of children’s problem behavior.The research methods used in this article are literature review and questionnaire survey.Based on reading literature,the relationship between father’s psychological flexibility in parenting,father son attachment,and children’s problematic behavior is summarized and analyzed;Choose the form of a questionnaire and randomly select three kindergartens in X urban area for a survey.The research tools are the "Parent Parenting Psychological Flexibility Questionnaire(Father Version),the" Father Son Attachment Questionnaire for Young Children,and the Problem Behavior Questionnaire for Young Children.Finally,288 valid data were collected.With the help of SPSS data analysis software,the following conclusions were obtained:1.The father’s psychological flexibility in parenting is generally good,but the score of commitment action dimension is low,and there is parenting anxiety.There are significant differences between father’s psychological flexibility in parenting and whether the child is an only child,father’s occupation,education level,monthly income and the time spent with the child.2.The problem behavior of children is at the middle level,and the problems of peer interaction and hyperactivity disorder are the majority.There are significant differences between children’s peer interaction problems and children’s age,gender,father’s age,education level,monthly income and company time.3.The overall father-son attachment is at the upper middle level,with the highest comfort score.There are significant differences between father and son attachment and father’s occupation,monthly income and company time.4.On the whole,father-child attachment has a significant positive correlation with father’s psychological flexibility,and a significant negative correlation with children’s problem behavior.There is a negative correlation between children’s problem behavior and father’s psychological flexibility in parenting.5.The overall level and dimensions of father-child attachment play a part of intermediary role in the psychological flexibility of father rearing and children’s problem behavior.It can be seen from the research conclusion that children’s problem behavior is affected by the psychological flexibility of father’s upbringing and the attachment of father and son.Therefore,this study puts forward suggestions to reduce children’s problem behaviors by improving the psychological flexibility of father’s parenting and the level of parent-child attachment and paying attention to the prominent problem behaviors: 1.Relieve parenting anxiety and enhance father’s psychological flexibility in parenting;2.Increase the effective time between father and son,and improve the attachment level of father and son;3.Set up a father’s role model and actively guide children’s problem behaviors.