The Past Home, The Present Home And The Future Home

The new immigrants to city is a new group accompanying process of urbanization. This group moves into cities at a large scale. This is an indisputable fact that also attracting wide attention from all sectors of society. At present, the researches of home education for this group is deficient, and this article also attempt to study this issue. In this paper, with getting along with the four students and the observation and analysis for the four students in several months, I know the life situation of the new immigrants to city, the relationship between parents and their children, the parents'education mode, the child's inner world, and I want to analyze the change of lifestyle and changes in moral and ethical concepts caused by their migration. The migration not only brings them advantages and opportunities, but also brings them heavy and bitter. The parents of immigrant families spend too much time and energy on family economy and urban adaptation and recognition. The situation makes the parents of immigrant families neglect theirs children's education also bring about a few disadvantageous factors to child's growing up.Meanwhile, the differences of lifestyle, life themes and moral and ethical concepts lead to more intense intergenerational conflict in immigrant families. This conflict has led "patriarchal" under attack and the traditional authority of parents has been challenged. In some families, this resolution of the conflict is at the expense of destroy of parent-child relationship. And that weaken the influence of the parents in the home education. On the other side, many other influencing factors, such as network media, really affect the young's life. Media is just a tool, it can be used but can't lead people to be good. When urbanization has become an inevitable trend, Immigrant families should pay more attention to understand and realize the new living environment, lifestyle, life ethics and all influencing factors.