Education Is How To Deal With Narcissistic People? ,

To everyone, the appearance of the word narcissism is not unfamiliar and the phenomenon of narcissism also exists everywhere. Many people call themselves narcissists not only on the Internet but also in our daily life, but what is narcissism? In this article, narcissism is a kind of infatuation to oneself and in his eyes he is the only standard to measure all things in this world. The form of narcissism has its own historical roots. After slipping the leash of God and Theology, on the base of independence and freedom, and with the development of modern consciousness of self-liberation, human beings became to appear an extreme autism. The most notable feature is the numb self-confident and self-love. Though it is the same confidence and love to oneself, it has essential differences from self-confidence and self-love.Because of the extreme attention to oneself, narcissism will cause some aftermaths unavoidably. Above all, that narcissists separate themselves from public domain and draw back to their private domain leads to the death of public sphere, and at the same time, for narcissists can only see themselves and care about their own benefits, narcissists become the enemy of citizen. On the other hand, because narcissism is the base of selfishness, in other words, selfishness is produced on the base of narcissism, the labefaction of narcissism, narcissists will slide to individualists unavoidably. Living in this narcissistic environment, a special group—young students can also not escape from influences. Except the influence of culture, there are some other foundations. One is young students'wrong understanding to freedom of personality, and the second is the overindulging from parents and grandparents.Schools are the focus of the society and the places to train men for profession, but can they avert the catastrophe which was brought by the storm of narcissism? The result may be frustrating. There are many reasons. Firstly, schools themselves have the essence of narcissism; secondly, students only take schools as the contain depot to achieve their goals; thirdly, teachers also have a tendency of narcissism during the teaching. As a result, we have to admit that schools are places to train narcissists. In view of existing situation, education must take some measures. First of all, education should make human beings get out of themselves and renew themselves; second, we have to reconstruct educational communality; At last, we should train students'ability of love, not only loving themselves, but also loving others.