Research On Love And Marriage Wonders From The Perspective Of The Media Environment

Individual’s emotional experience has been concerned by scholars in the modern society,especially the view of their love and marriage. With the development of society,especially the consolidation of post-modern dominance of instrumental rationality, it makes the individual’s concept of marriage to a qualitative difference compared to traditional society.The paper put the view of love and marriage in the media environment, trying to make systematic investigation about it.Modern society is in the process of Weber’s sense of "disenchantment" ration, although this is the inevitable result of social development, despite Weber has even found that "the ultimate, most noble value, disappeared from public life, they fled to the secret life of transcendental field, or into the fraternity of private exchanges between individuals", the media environment of contemporary society is spreading its tentacles into all levels of society, "the ultimate, the most noble value "of individual private marriage experience is being affected. This "disenchantment" makes that all seems to be grasped by calculating, the love there is nothing mysterious and incalculable forces don’t work. To make matters worse, since the media has become part of people’s living environment, nobody can not escape. "You are the one", as a large influential marriage programs, it bases on the life and gets men and women of all walks of life together, presents to ten million viewers their marriage live through TV,Internet and other media.This not only help us to better understand idea of love and marriage of today’s men and women, the impact of the media environment on the marriage concept, but also to analysis from the audience’s point of departure.In this context, the article is divided into four levels of discourse. The first level outlines the view of love and marriage in modern society and try to find out the heterogeneity factor by comparing the idea of love and marriage "You Are the One" has presented with the traditional view; the second level analysis how media in large social context affects the individual’s concept of marriage; the third level, a detailed analysis of this media environment’s influence on individual idea of love and marriage, while other aspects of individual privacy emotional impact; the fourth dimension criticize the infeasible marriage views under the premise, to explore how to find the true love of a belong to the individual, and seeks to make this love along with the individual life.