The Research In Father’s Improper Role In Their Children’s Education

In the field of education of the modern family, more people think it’s child’s mothers’responsibility to rear the child. Only a handful of his father to take the initiative to assume responsibility of the father.the role of the father performs different forms.In recent years, the divorce rate is rising, along with the emergence there are tens of thousands of single-parent families. According to UN statistics, in recent years, the divorce rate in many countries of the world has a rapidly rising trend. The United States, South Korea, India, Germany and many European countries, chronically high divorce rate, divorce rate has been close to the United States and Europe the trend of gender imbalance in many Asian countries. Legal considerations to the child’s upbringing, children more are brought up by his mother, father, difficult to get custody of the absence of the father to the children’s education of potential problems, and therefore lead to a series of social problems. The role of the father are based on "Father Absence", more concerned about those children due to parents’ separation, divorce, death of his father and other reasons the lack of a father’s care, the lack of the father of the phenomenon. But they ignore a serious phenomenon, the father of missing not only exist with these single-parent families, or grandparent families, many complete families standing children’s education "auditorium" on the "invisible father", while The mother became a living in intact families "hidden single mother. Some father s in complete family show as an "error exemplary role of the father, the greater role of the father improper influence on children and his father missing also harm to the child. Many fathers are material to meet the alternative to the father, such as the educational institutions, and other relatives to take care of substitute father, until the children who show wants to restore, but it was too late. The country in recent years occurred in the "rich" and "official second generation" show off their wealth, criminal events are also the father of improper education of their children generated consequences.I tried to the position of the child, the child’s perspective, the idea of adhering to the education of the children’s lives, and the improper role of the father to the children bring a variety of impact, including on children’s intelligence, ability, personality, emotions, gender awareness, moral, social interpersonal relationships. Summarize the literature search through a lot of the images of the father in the child development, critical analysis of some of the inappropriate roles of the father:laissez faire, alternative, authoritarian. Also believe that the democratic type of father is the social child and more needs and expectations of the father image.Anomalies for the role of the father in the family education, I suggest that the role of the father from laissez faire to managed transition, the transition from authoritarian to democratic alternative to the spirit of change, to diversify from a single type.In view of the lack of social existence father concerned about the children, I intend to "improper role of the father" as the starting point, from three different families in three different age children from2005to2012early next year for a period of7years of observation, interviews, investigation and intervention, a detailed record of the model for interaction of these three children and father and family patterns of life, and the role of the father of the child’s impact on the role of the father improperly intervene and adjust the role of the father into improve parent-child relationship, and promote the healthy development of children.This study approaches to the study of literature, narrative research method and comparative study. Increasing emphasis on the positive role of the father in children’s education society and the family hope that through this article, also called on fathers to take the initiative to assume responsibility of his father, into the role of the father. And recognize heir own in dealing with the child’s attitude towards child, the child sets goals whether or not the right place. Lastly, I hope the father stood in the position of the child from the child’s best interests, the aim of studying tolerance, encouragement, management mentality of self-reflection, education, to guide the child to be a good boy.