| According to my observation, when "lost the only child Parents" face such a big loss, they will have experience of deny the facts, painful period and come to a gradual recovery. Finally fracture the attachment. And thus adapt the new environment, reset the "passing children" and start a new life. In these three periods,"lost the only child family’"s demand and characteristics have a clear stage, and there are clear links between the various aspects of the mentality in the stage of development. So the practice of social work in this area should also consider stage reasons. And as social psychologist Dr. Kamil Waterman obtained by comparative experimental method for serious bereavement cases, the traditional concept of the "time will heal all" does not apply. As for the parents who lost their only child in vicious incident, it is often difficult to fully rely on their own strength to withsta nd smoothly from the pain of transition to remission, breaking the original attachment. And ev en if they transit successfully, they will also enter a subhealthy family model as a result of the original solid triangular structure is broken, which is difficult to resist external pressures and r isks. And for this group, the biggest difficulty is not only a simple material aspects of life, but social life, which includes material life.The current social security system is not sufficient to alleviate their plight, so social work profession is quite needed. According to the "lost the only child family" stage characteristics and demands, the intervention of social work expertise to help "lost the only child families "smoothly complete the detachment to withstand the transition period to recovery and create a sound social support network system, making the "lost the only child families" have their dependency and well treated in old age, rehabilitating and developing their social function. At the same time, those people is undeniable recover, their hiding potential should be utilization. |
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