Research About Adjustment Measures For Psychological Problems Of College Students’ Interpersonal Communication

Interpersonal communication is throughout the daily life of the college students and occupies an important position in college students’ campus life. The situation of the college students’ interpersonal communication will directly affect the development of psychological health of college students. At the same time, Interpersonal communication is the integrated embodiment for the cultivation of a person. Interpersonal skill has become a crucial standard of the modern social measure and evaluating people’s basic quality. Moreover, the good interpersonal skill will be an intangible wealth of modern people. Therefore, in the condition of socialist market economy, developing the interpersonal skill of the college students has become a necessary method of survival, competition, acquisition and development. Up to now, the overall condition of interpersonal communication of college students in our country is good. However, in the interpersonal communication of the college student has appeared some problem as well. The student who has the problem of facing the complex relationship of the interpersonal communication is more and more. The college students, as the main force of achieving the China dream, the degree of harmony of their interpersonal communication and the mental health of individuals will influence directly the built of harmonious campus and harmonious society. So actively investigating the method of solving the psychological problems of the interpersonal communication of the college students has being the one of the important project of the university ideological education.The essay is based on the angle of ideological and political education, and uses the literature research method, summary of experience method, qualitative research methods and others research method, and fully references research result of the Homans’ social exchange theory in social psychology to elaborate the interpersonal communication and the interpersonal communication of college students. The generalized interpersonal communication of college students means the interpersonal communication process of college students communicating with the relevant people and collective in the society. The narrow interpersonal communication of college students refers the interpersonal communication process of college students communicating with the relevant individual and group in the university campus. The main types of college students’ interpersonal communication include the type of individual-to-individual, the individual to the collective and the individual to the group. However, the content of college students’ interpersonal communication mainly divided into political thought, emotion, study, and entertainment interaction. Analyzing the significant meaning of college students carrying out the interpersonal communication, college students’ interpersonal communication is the important area of the ideology and politics educational activities, develops the college students’ socialization process, is the crucial guarantee of keeping the healthy development of body and mind of the college students, and is the key of generating college students’ join forces.The essay is based on the angle of ideological and political education, and uses the literature research method, summary of experience method, qualitative research methods and others research method, and fully references research result of the Homans’ social exchange theory in social psychology to elaborate the interpersonal communication and the interpersonal communication of college students. The generalized interpersonal communication of college students means the interpersonal communication process of college students communicating with the relevant people and collective in the society. The narrow interpersonal communication of college students refers the interpersonal communication process of college students communicating with the relevant individual and group in the university campus. The main types of college students’ interpersonal communication include the type of individual-to-individual, the individual to the collective and the individual to the group. However, the content of college students’ interpersonal communication mainly divided into political thought, emotion, study, and entertainment interaction. Analyzing the significant meaning of college students carrying out the interpersonal communication, college students’ interpersonal communication is the important area of the ideology and politics educational activities, develops the college students’ socialization process, is the crucial guarantee of keeping the healthy development of body and mind of the college students, and is the key of generating college students’ join forces.From Homans social exchange theory, it is not hard to analyse that college students’ psychology of interpersonal communication and mutual benefit and utilitarian, diversity and virtual, equality and unbalanced, high expectations and instability, urgency and subjectivity, the opposite sex psychological strong characteristics and so on. If bad mood is not timely released, it will cause psychological problems in interpersonal communication of college students, such as: ignore the emotional rewards of vanity, failure scene to stimulate the fear, the value judgment error jealousy psychology, input outdated loneliness and unequal pay selfishness, and non rational judgment inferiority complex.Therefore, college ideological and political education can establish a correct view of interpersonal communication for college students, for students’ interpersonal motivation, interpersonal awareness education, guiding the interpersonal value education, interpersonal frustration education, interpersonal moral education, interpersonal art direction, so that students could get rid of psychological problems: to overcome vanity, fear, jealousy, and get out of lonely, selfish, put down self-centred personality and get rid of inferiority. In addition to this, educators should improve students’ interpersonal quality of the main body, and let students grasp through interpersonal communication rhythm and grasp the scientific method of psychological adjustment to face interpersonal frustration or negative emotions. At the same time, colleges and universities should also create a harmonious interpersonal environment through interpersonal communication, a rich and good campus atmosphere interaction, organize campus culture activities, provide various social practice experience to offer more interpersonal communication and exercise opportunities for college students.Healthy interpersonal communication is an important guarantee for the live and development for college students, the establishment of interpersonal communication has a important significance to college students’ personal growth and development as well, but also it is conducive for the formation of the unity and harmony of the campus atmosphere, helps the ideological and political education in colleges and universities to promote industrial level, so as to promote the effective implementation of the management target of college ideological and political education.