State Of Mind To Be With Life--- Employment Rethinks Of A University Graduate

Reflections on who died of a high school classmate, pull open the prelude of paper. Although, about university students’employment pressure and the reports of suicide already commonplace, but researchers have occurred when it is true, I feel the whole world is gray. I kept asking myself, why? What shall we do?In 2015, I want to graduate, with these questions, walk the road of my graduation, opens the fallacies and disambiguation model of self quiz, I walk all the way with a partner, lili, started my research.This study, with the method of life narrative, the full text has two clues, one, and push the process of the author and lili employment; Second, the author lili employment and promote the reflection and solving. Driven in the first clue leads to the focus of the full text, at the time of our most confused, helpless, we found important around by others, under the guidance of them, meet again in the past, experience the other life; Meet again the moment, look at your past; To find yourself, start again. Full text narrative in the dimensions of time and space, detailed describes the two families of three generations of life and its course under the specific background of time and space of career choice, strive to at the same time span in the transverse show individual experience of the same and different, in the same and different longitudinal show the two families.The research purpose of this study is to reveal the history of everyone not flee, but in some stage of life the history is hidden, not to be self aware. When we are faced with the present problems, you should go to detect and combing the effect on their survival mentality, and open up to double intersection given by the era and the new environment, with his future journey. Left the life time, plant an autumn, will eventually burst, but intangible yet tenacious survival mentality can be passed from generation to generation.The foothold of this study for the universities employment instruction work, the researchers of universities employment instruction work in terms of research connect several Suggestions are put forward. First of all, the employment guidance should be by construction as the starting point of survival mentality and good attribution; Secondly, live in good state of mind to build on from two aspects:first, know yourself, help students to know themselves, understanding and value yourself, construct the life education system; Second, understanding the present, face to face with time, to face the gain and loss.Finally, as the researchers I know good survival mentality of the build is by no means a short paper can say clear, universities employment instruction work is an involved many complex project, this research is trying to present a visual Angle, can universities employment instruction work is closer to the us, some more humanistic care.