The Investigation Of Problems And Countrtmeasures On The View Of Love By College Students Of "Post-1995"

The attitude of love is people’s views and attitudes to love issues,and the embodiment of values in love issues.It has great importance of personal growth,family happiness and even social harmony,stability and development to hand of love issues correctly.College students who in school is in the youth love,setting up the correct love,having the right attitude towards love,handling the relationship between learning and love correctly,dealing with the problems in love actively has great significance of college students’ growth and development,and better for the realization of the Chinese dream of the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation power.This article is based on the angle of the investigation and analysis of college students’ love,combining domestic and foreign related literature about love,with the method of theoretical analysis and empirical research to select the "post-1995" college students in some universities of western Liao Ning to carry out a questionnaire survey,then investigating the cognition of the concept of love among the "post-1995" college students.The analysis of the data shows that some current “post-1995” college students in love exists some problems,such as the standard of choosing a spouse is utilitarian,lack of stability in love,the pursuit of love is idealization,the understanding of sex is wrong,the consumption concept of love is irrational,and can’t deal with the relationship between love and study correctly.Then analyzing the reasons from four aspects: social environment,school education,family and personal factors.In view of these prominent problems,the author starting from the causes,summed up the specific measures from four aspects for college students to establish a correct view of love: perfecting and improving the content and form of love concept education,constructing a good social environment,giving full play to the guiding role of family education and strengthening the self-cultivation of college students.