Study On The Application Of Structural Family Therapy Model In Intervening Family "Cold Violence"

The family is often regarded as a natural social system,and each individual in the family plays an important role in supporting the healthy operation and development of the system.Each of us yearns for the warmth and support of others in the family,so we often say that the family is our last haven and the family is our last dependence.It is true that family is full of warmth and happiness,and it is a source of strength for us.However,if the family is full of indifference and contradiction,whether the family can still play its due function,the answer is inevitably negative.With the development of society and the improvement of people's spiritual culture,family "cold violence" has gradually been known and valued by people.Compared with "hot violence",cold violence has been neglected for a long time because of its stronger concealment and invisible wounding.The so-called "cold violence ",is also a kind of violence,its manifestations are mainly indifference,neglect,alienation,indifference and disregard,they will directly cause other people's psychological,mental and physical psychological quality therefore suffered a serious blow and varying degrees of injury.Some scholars even compare domestic cold violence to "family cancer",which erodes every cell in the family bit by bit.This paper takes an atypical family cold violence as an example,and provides services through the structural family therapy mode,in order to improve the current situation of the service target.Domestic cold violence mainly occurs between husband and wife,which is manifested as the deteriorating relationship between husband and wife.When the couple have differences and disputes due to some things,one party takes long-term neglect,contempt,indifference and other behaviors,which leads to the other party's mental shock and psychological injury.In this case,because the "cold violence" between the husband and wife,affect the relationship between old system and subsystem,so we through structural family therapy model to help the service object XXL to repair relations with her husband,on this basis to improve the old woman daughter-in-law relation and the parent-child relationship,at the same time,frequency and the way to improve the whole family everyday.The study found that the structural family therapy model is effective in alleviating and improving family "cold violence".In the service process,we found that the intimate relationship between Ms.Chen and her husband was restored,the misunderstanding between Ms.Chen and her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was resolved,the parent-child relationship between Mr.Zhang and his daughter was developed,and the boundary between Auntie Wang and her son was unclear and clear.Therefore,the service objectives provided by this time are basically achieved and the family structure is reconstructed.Therefore,the structural family therapy model,which takes changing the family structure as the primary service goal of treatment and focuses on rebuilding the family structure,is desirable in the service of "cold domestic violence".