| The emotion of human is developing in the history with the change of social value. In past thousands years, the social construct and social culture has changed sharply. The modern social culture fertilizes new form to express our emotion. We concern ours own thoughts and affections more than ever. We go after the freedom spirit and want to choose lifestyle by our own way. Thus, the forth emotion comes out and become the very important way to satisfy our emotional requirement.As the new emotion form, the forth emotion is complement to other emotion like love and friendship. The forth emotion is a kind of rational emotion which is based on respect, understanding and recognizing. The persons in the forth emotion, when one get better know about another; he will admire and respect anther more. They also will more dependent on the emotion. The emotion arises from our desire to find out "who we are". We want to know exactly want we really need and want. We have to listen to the voice from our bottom hearts. In the emotion, the person regards another as the mirror. Through the mirror, the persons can read their hearts and get better know about themselves.The forth emotion break the traditional marriage relationship. Chinese tradition marriage always emphasize that the lady has no right but obey to the husband. They have to loyal to family and marriage whatever they want or not. They even can not make any change about their marriages. The traditional marriage caused a lot of tragedies and far reaching affect to our society. The traditional marriage view violates the modern value which is advocating freedom. On the contrary, the forth emotion encourages person to express his emotion and get happiness from emotional satisfactions. The persons are in the equal position in the forth emotion, they respect and admire each other.As the emotion coexist with love and friendship, the forth emotion incline to conflict with other emotions under certain circumstances, especially with love. Accordingly, we should make it go on in the right way. The forth emotion has to be morally controlled. The forth emotion ought to fellow ethical disciplines and should not hurt any person's marriage and family who are engaging in it. Any person should keep balance between the self constraint and self recognizing to have moral and happy life. |
