The Research On Moral Education Of Contemporary College Students’ Love And Marriage

College students’ moral education of love and marriage is an important dimension of College Ideological and political education being close to life, close to reality, close to the students in China, which has important significance for college students’ happiness of life, harmonious family happiness and social stability. But with the enhancement of awareness of rights of university students, the expansion of consciousness in the moral education and the influence of diversified values, college students’ moral education of love and marriage has a comprehensive challenge. To re-examine college students’ moral education of love and marriage, innovating education idea, simplifying the education content, clearing education value orientation and target, constructing effective way to the social, school and family education, optimizing educational environment, are inevitable choice of enhancing the effectiveness of college students’ moral education of love and marriage.For a long time the process of moral education has been viewed as a process of moral theory teaching, a process of shaping people in according with the needs of society, ignoring the consciousness of personal moral pursuit and practice. Moral education in this paper, a reverse of the usual pattern, based on individual angle, from different aspects, explores ways to improving the contents and methods in college students’ moral education of love and marriage. Making efforts to promote the transformation of paradigm of education. around this idea, combining with problems of college students’ love and marriage and college students’ moral education of love and marriage, this paper makes the following argumentation and exposition.To demonstrate college students’ moral education of love and marriage as the core position. There is a tendency of moral education of edging college student’s moral education of love and marriage in reality, love and marriage education from sociology and psychology, skills of love and marriage, sexual knowledge, psychology of sexual education are popular, but ethics education of love and marriage is more desolate, resulting in that marriage moral education is not important. Only with the establishment of core command status college students’ moral education of love and marriage, content selection of college students’ moral education of love and marriage will have standards of primary and secondary education, other marriage education can have centripetal force and coordination capacity, promoting the transformation of students’ love and marriage morality.To analyze in the contemporary college students’ marriage morality and education problems and reasons. On the basis of empirical investigation, combined with previous research on College Students’ love and marriage investigation, analysis of college students in the moral of love, marriage morals and moral problems, make clear that problems exist in marriage and moral education about concept, content, methods, staff and environment, discusses the social factors affect the marriage of moral education, school factors and family factors.To establish the value orientation and goal of college students’ moral education of love and marriage. The Core Values of Socialism are the value orientation of college students’ moral educationof love and marriage, pointing out the choice direction for a variety of marriage values and moral conflict. And improving the ability of love, a happy marriage and healthful personality cultivation are the goals of education.To optimizate the content of college students’ moral education of love and marriage. Moral principles and norms should keep consistent with the requirements of rights society, so moral principles and norms should keep consistent with the times, not advocating moral principles and norms that are out of times, emphasizing basic ethical principles and requirements, in order to integrate love and marriage moral education into other education easily. That is: outstanding the core position of love moral, emphasizing the spiritual attributes of love, coordinating with all kinds of relationships,such as the spirit and the flesh, senses and spiritual satisfaction, love and others, love and life in the process of love, having good motive of the love; in marriage morality, emphasizing the ethical essence of the marriage, the couple loyalty and taking on responsibility in marriage; in sexual morality, emphasizing the consistency of love and sex, chastity and responsibility.To exploring the effective way to the social education, school education and family education. Social education needs to create a paying attention to emotion and persuit of justice moral environment; to be stricted with the value orientation in media entertainment culture, strengthen the supervision system regulation, strengthen the service function of government organization; School education needs to innovate education idea, carrying out the "people-oriented" concept of value to the whole process of moral education, updating ideas about methods and management and process; to improve the planning of the content and curricula, with the core status of moral education in love and marriage according to the principle of promoting ethical progress in love and marriage,to arrange the content and curriculum reasonably; to integrate and improve teachers’ team, strengthening the teacher collaboration in the ideology and value;to cultivate collaborative environment in campus, creating a good relationship of interpersonal emotion psychology. Family education needs parents to create a harmonious marriage and family atmosphere, cultivate the consciousness and ability of children independent, and strive to build a solid foundation for family harmony and stability.