Study On Interpersonal Harmony, Values And Their Relationship Of Only Children College Students

The harmony society is not social system's concept,It is one kind of social condition concept."the harmonious society"request society system's each part,each kind of essential factor is at one kind of intercoordination be the condition of dynamical equilibrium,is the social development one benign movement,the coordinated development condition,is an ideal goal. The harmonious society mainly includes the interpersonal relationship the harmony,the person and society's harmony,the human and the natural harmony, what is most basic is between the person and person's harmony. Left the person and person's contact relations,cannot say that it is the society, but a society's interpersonal relationship has lost the harmony,also very difficult to call that it is a harmonious society. Therefore,interpersonal relationship's harmony also becomes in construction harmonious society each kind of factor the key and the cornerstone.In our country, along with birth control policy's realization,the only child are getting more and more. They will occupy our country child quite great proportion in certain time. The only child,usually easy to occupy the family in the central place, often returns receives parents' excessive protection,this kind protects excessively limits their active enthusiasm and the independence,constrains their creativity, hinders them with the other person's normal contact,thus causes their body and mind to receive the serious fetter, the excessive protection's result,takes to them is not frequently is safe and is joyful, but is anxious and is disappointed. When they, once leaves the parents move toward social time,will appear seriously does not adapt the phenomenon. The only child does not have the experience which in the family brothers the sisters live together,easy to form the self-center in the emotion,is not good at realizing that sharing happiness,lacks the coordinated interpersonal relationship ability,also, because they lack the friend generation which in the family may imitate,easy to form in the words and deeds the precocious phenomenon.This research's goal is for the purpose of discussing the only child university student values each integrant part structure and the characteristic,the establishment surveys the only child university student values the measuring tool,takes advantage of this to the only child university student's values diagnosis and the appraisal,based on this and studies the only child university student values and the interpersonal harmonious relations. This research is the research which carries on from the psychology angle of view, can clarify to a certain extent the jamming and that children university student's values and the interpersonal harmonious relations , has certain innovation , regarding strengthens the only child university student values training and the education has ten vital significances.This research through the literature analysis,the questionnaire establishment, the related research and so on many kinds of methods conducts the research,altogether includes six research: Only child university student values research,only child university student interpersonal harmonious present situation research,only child university student's values and interpersonal harmonious relational research.Below this research obtains the main conclusion:①Only child university student's values mainly by the life values,the interpersonal values,the knowledge values three aspects constitute. And,the life values contain 4 dimensions,respectively is: Collective orientation,Cooperation orientation,Individual orientation,Individual struggle orientation.The interpersonal values contain 2 dimensions,respectively is:Social orientation,Psychological orientation.The knowledge values contain 2 dimensions,respectively is: Individual orientation,Social orientation.②This research establishment's only child university student values questionnaire,the interpersonal harmonious questionnaire have the good letter and the validity,may take appraises the only child university student values and the interpersonal harmonious present situation basis.③Only child university student values present situation and characteristic in the life values,individual struggle orientation and the cooperation orientation score are highest, the collective orientation score is lowest;Male student's collective orientation obvious strong in female student's collective orientation;The father is high-level superintendent's only child university student's individual orientation is strongest, but the father is lower management personnel's only child university student's individual orientation is weakest; The family average per person yearly income G > 50,000 Yuan only child university student's collective orientation is most obvious in the collective orientation,but the family average per person yearly income 1 < G < 30,000 Yuan only child university student's collective orientation is weakest.In interpersonal values: The social orientation score is higher than the psychological orientation score by far;Only child university student's social orientation obvious strong in non-only child university student's social orientation. in the knowledge values the social orientation score is higher than the individual orientation.④Only child university student interpersonal harmonious present situation and characteristic the reciprocal benefit and communicates two aspects to score points high,the equality and forgives these two aspects to score points lowly. the female student is fastidious about the good faith compared to the male student;What the non-only child university student can be better than the only child university student is others considers;The family average per person yearly income G≤10,000 Yuan only child university students understand treat people as equals. the 5. only child university student's values and interpersonal harmonious relational in the life values' cooperation orientation and individual struggle orientation and the interpersonal harmonious total score assume are remarkable are being related;In the interpersonal values' social orientation and the interpersonal harmonious total score assume are remarkable are being related;In knowledge values' individual orientation and the social orientation and the interpersonal harmonious total score assume are remarkable are being related.