Study On The Lonely Phenomenon Of Contemporary College Students

No matter in the filed of daily life or academic study, people used to pay moreattention to the negative aspects of loneliness with a pessimistic attitude, consideringloneliness seriously affects the development of human physical and mental health. Somescholars conclude that psychological disorders and thinking problems of the collegestudents like meaningless relationship, violence, alcoholism, internet addiciton, suicideand other bad behavior are closely related to loneliness. As a consequence, scholars havebeen calling for the "elimination of loneliness". Li Chuanyin and some other scholarshave used group psychological counseling, social training and other methods to helpcollege students get rid of loneliness. However, through the latest empirical investigation,I found that although the degree of lonely of college students is up to60%, which isconsistent with the research of Li Chuanyin a decade ago, but in the process of theinvestigation, I found that most of the college students themselves do not think lonely isnegative or terrible. Academia takes "lonely" into the negative discourse system is, to acertain extent, a little arbitrary. The author uses the theory of positive psychologyperspective and contradictions of Marxism to divide lonely into two kinds of research:the first is a kind of blind, being forced, purely negative experience in a "bored, lonelyemptiness” state, which is a negative psychological problems of subjective feeling. Thisis just the "loneliness" studied in the psychology field. While the second is a conscious,self-awake, positive, also a kind of lonely that get rid of the narrow-minded dependenceof people, and thus can face, dominate and even stick to their own freedom and lonelinessbeing left bravely. It is also a kind of conscious state which can continuously injectsignificance and vitality into individual poetic life and social progress. Inspired by thepositive perspective of Positive Psychology, I explored college students’ lonely rootsfrom the perspective of psychology, philosophy, sociology and many other disciplinesand concluded that introverted personality with paranoid cognitive is the psychologyroots of lonely, the awakening of self-consciousness and pursuit of self-identity is thephilosophical roots; loss of community and alienation of the ivory tower is the sociologicroot. I also propose a way to deal with college students’ loneliness from thecorresponding angle: making personality sound and correcting cognitive in thepsychological angle; accepting and sublimating the loneliness in the philosophical angle; and building the School Community and purifying school atmosphere in sociologicalangle. And thus we can ease the loneliness of college students, guide college students tohave a better and healthier quality and human can also maintain the potential fordevelopment and liberation, and then reach for happiness.