Investigation And Study Of Children's Typical Irregularities In Family

The acquisition of behavior norms is of great significance to the socialization of children.In order to complete the socialization process,children need to master the behavior pattern recognized by the society gradually,acquire certain social behavior norms,form a sense of inner order and develop good behavior habits,so that they can be better transformed from natural people to social people and better promote the development of self and society.As a major way of children's socialization,families have played an irreplaceable role in developing good behavior habits and good personality development,compared with schools and peer groups.This paper starts with the training of children's rule awareness and the acquisition of good behavior norms,starting with the rules compliance of three typical problems of unsafe behavior,aggressive behavior and destructive behavior of children in the family,using the method of questionnaire survey and interview method,taking 265 parents in 5 districts of N District of Chongqing as the main research object to carry out a questionnaire survey,at the same time,6 parents were interviewed in depth to understand the compliance of children's typical irregularities and their parents' understanding and education of children's behavior norms.Through the investigation of the unsafe behavior,aggression and destructive behavior of children in the family,it is found that the violations of children are general high average level;and the results also reflect that many parents are very limited in the educational guidance level of children's behavior norms,especially for children to standardize their educational purposes,education content and teaching.The understanding and understanding of the methods of breeding are not in place.Therefore,there are many problems in training children's rule consciousness and good behavior habits in family.On the basis of summarizing the field survey data and literature,in order to further fill in the related research on the standardized education of family children's behavior and help parents to solve the related problems,this paper puts forward some pertinent suggestions: first,we should improve the parents' understanding of the standardized education of children's behavior in the family,and deeply understand the content and purpose of the standard education for children's behavior in the family.Secondly,actively explore the content and purpose of the education.The effective methods of children's typical children's illegal behavior education in the cable family are willing to communicate and study with experts and excellent preschool educators.Finally,the family atmosphere is created suitable for children's behavior norms,the parents' educational concept is consistent,the children set the example for the children,help the children to set up the rule consciousness,clear the non concept,and guide the children to restrain and regulate their own behavior.