Deconstruction Or Construction

The interpersonal relationship of Chinese traditional society is based on blood ties and geopolitics,forming a local cultural structure of "differential pattern".The popularity of virtual social interaction,especially the popularization of WeChat,has changed the traditional face-to-face interpersonal interaction mode,provided a new way for interpersonal interaction and endowed new characteristics of interpersonal relationship.In the Spring Festival of 2015,"red packets" were hot.Many people were "robbing red packets" and ignoring their interactions with their loved ones.This phenomenon caused me to ponder.What influence did WeChat have on interpersonal relationship in this time? Therefore,the author takes the interpersonal relationship in WeChat as the research object,and aims to explore the new characteristics and new trends of the interpersonal relationship in the network age.The interpersonal relationship question has been always paid attention to by sociologists.Foreign scholar Granovetter's relation theory and the domestic scholar Fei Xiaotong's "differential pattern" theory provides the idea of writing for the author,who also found reaserch on WeChat interpersonal relationship are mainly involved in psychology,communication and journalism,from aspects of the motivations of the users,WeChat communication effect,the change of interpersonal interaction and so on.From the perspective of sociology,this paper studies the interpersonal relationship in WeChat from three aspects: the construction of WeChat's interpersonal relationship,the breakdown of WeChat's interpersonal relationship,and the maintenance and expansion of WeChat's interpersonal relationship.In this paper,the author summarized and analyzed 20 sample interviews and WeChat interactive data,and drew conclusions from literature learning and sorting.The author believes that the influence of WeChat on interpersonal relationship is dual.On the one hand,WeChat "Deconstruction" original relationships in the virtual space of WeChat's people pay more attention to find like-minded friends,in order to purify the circle of friends,those with their own interests of different people "blacklist" or "delete" caused by breakage of interpersonal relationship,but the fracture does not mean that the relationship between virtual space breaking reality of interpersonal relationship,which makes becoming fragmented and superficial,no root of reality;on the other hand,WeChat constructs the new relationship by provideing virtual social platform,making people transcend geographical kinship restrictions and pay more attention to the interest margin.