Research On The Interpersonal Realtionship Among Roommates In College Dormitories

Dormitory interpersonal relationships are an important part of college students, it is like a red thread through the four years of college life, and college students inseparable. Small quarters are college students most directly involved in human interaction sites, is also a measure of students interpersonal skills, mental health and acted in a small ruler. Quarters is not only a university student life and the rest of the main site, but also they can learn the Garden, access to information of the window, thinking of the channels of communication and entertainment heaven and earth, and can not be ignored "second class", dormitory interaction and exchange among the members also to become college students have to face direct contact is the longest relationships. In recent years, college students appear in a variety of malignant dormitory incident Dormitory interpersonal relationships showed the "red light", the University four years of school experience also let me acutely aware of the dormitory the importance of the development of interpersonal relationships on college students, but also witnessed a number of quarters as a result of disharmony in relationships all the adverse consequences. Therefore, students conduct in-depth study of interpersonal relations quarters to analyze the impact of university students dormitory interpersonal relationships contribute to physical and mental health of university students to develop and successfully complete their studies.In this paper, two College of Wuhan University of Technology,500 college students in the school survey found that current college students in the following five aspects of the relationship between quarters reflect the significant differences:1. Grade differences; 2. Gender differences; 3. Biogenic differences; 4. Of family financial circumstances differences; 5. Professional category differences.In the results of the survey and interviews that further analysis of the mainstream of the current Dormitory harmonious interpersonal relations, in the adolescent college students thinking of a simple, energetic, wide range of interests, interpersonal strong demand, most of the students are positive and interpersonal healthy, but Dormitory relationships also exist some problems. Dormitory and harmonious interpersonal relations through the analysis of the reasons for that:1. To meet the student's emotional communication and development needs; 2. Gained life experience and social information; 3. Solve student learning and life in reality. Through the Dormitory Causes of disharmony in relationships that have the following four factors:1. Individual factors; 2. Family factors; 3. School factors; 4. Network and cultural factors. Thus, this paper presents the corresponding countermeasures and suggestions:1. Students should strengthen their own personality training, to develop a good personality psychology quality; 2. Schools should actively promote and create a civilization Harmony students in Park; 3. Parents should be strengthened to guide their children's living quarters and help. Synergies in all aspects of play the system efficiency, promote a harmonious interpersonal relationship quarters.