Research On The School Violence In Primary And Secondary Schools Under The Perspective Of Educational Love

A paper titled "Suggestions on students' prevention of bullying and violence was published by the Ministry of education of the central management office,the Supreme People's court and other nine departments on November 1st,2016.It was clearly stated that students who commit crimes were allowed to be rehoused by the government if necessary.Especially for crimes with wicked circumstances,cruel means and serious consequences,the criminals must be punished severely according to law.Therefore,the problem of school violence is a big issue.It is not skirmish between children's play,but it escalates a vicious crime and gradually becoming a social problem that threatens public security.It has brought a great challenge to school,family and society.I find that primary and middle school students have already become the main dominant force in campus violence and their violent acts are extremely bad through gathering the information from the internet and coverage.We can't help asking that school should be a place where children can grow up happily,but why such a dark thing happened in school.How can the innocent youngsters become cruel kids.Based on this situation,this article introduce the idea of educational love in order to demonstrate the love,which lost in people's heart,is the root of human,and its loss that makes children becoming a indifferent kid.Furthermore,solutions are proposed to arouse the dominant position of love in school,family and society.To begin with,school violence's factors are analyzed in this article by the literature research method in order to lay the foundation for educational love's loss in school violence.Furthermore,comparative researches are used in analyzing educational love's theory for the nature's of it.From the Greece's bisexual love to the existent love in 20th century,fromChina's romantic love to the Confucius's philosophical love.It is discussed that educational love has the characteristics of active,bidirectional and internal.The essence of it is to make people having noble moral sentiment and the pursuit of truth,virtue and beauty.It can be seen that love is the eternal topic of human beings and the foundation of human existence.And then the causes of campus violence are founded out by the samples in the interview survey.The causes are mainly in school,family and society.In school,the function of personal development is weaken and the function of social division of labor is strengthened,laying false foundation to the children whose physical and mental development is not complete,so it neglects the cultivation of the individual's noble personality,which bringing hidden dangers to the school violence.The imbalance of family structure,the disorder of family's function and the conflict of parental role are the main reasons in causing the violence.As those problems in family,children become alienated and unfamiliar with their parents,which means they lost the warmth and love that could give them a sense of belonging and security.It would bring great trauma and shadow to the child.With the development of market economy in society,people's expansion on material desires and the enhancement of instrumental concept make them living in a tense and nervous world Education is successfully separated with love in this social environment,the worst thing is children becoming slaves to the objects.Moreover,with the development of technology,children are addicted in playing computers,which breaks the boundary between children and adults,because kids have easily access to the knowledge of adults's world,so adults do not have the power to control children.What's more,children like to copy the behavior from others,if they watch some violent and sexual movies on the Internet,they are more likely to try it in real life.Children lose educational love,some solutions are proposed.Incorporating educational love into a system,which emphasizes the moral process of knowing four-in-one line of education,in order to arise people's awareness of love,practice it into their behavior and spread the love among school,family and society.The aim of these solutions is to create an environment with kindness and beauty to the students and on the other hand,dissolving the violence in their hearts is a better way to make them loving others.